Stop having a bitch attitude

Thursday, 10:44
Somewhere in Hyperborea

Do you ever stop to wonder what you’re doing with your life?

Do you ever think, “what the hell is this that I’m spending all my time on?”

I do.

I wonder if I’m wasting my breath… if this is what people are like in 2023.

Especially when I see people online (the “Right” in particular) deteriorate into lunacy.

Yesterday, I saw some loser bitching about how awful women are, because he can’t get a date. Because he’s not good looking enough to get laid, or whatever…

“Boohoo, women are such fucking whores. Why don’t they like me. I’m so sad. They sleep around with everyone except me.”

Dude, if you can’t get a girl, you can’t blame the girls… Don’t you get it?

I’m not saying it’s necessarily your “fault” either. Strictly speaking, we’re all victims of our circumstances.

Maybe you were never told how to talk to women. Maybe you were born with some social disadvantage. What do I know.

But venting your sexual frustration in public is not going to help.

Women are not going to fix your problems for you. They’re not going to see your pain… pity you… and give you a mercy fuck.

“There, there. Everything will be OK. Now let’s go to bed.”

That’s not how it works.

I mean, is that really what you want?

Do you want a woman to be your mommy and fix your problems for you?

That’s certainly how a lot of guys sound these days… and frankly, that explains exactly why they can’t find a woman.

Because they have a bitch attitude. And women don’t find that attractive.

The thing is, if you are a normal man… if you have two arms and two legs… then 99% of the problem is in your head.

I know, I know… Women appreciate a man with handsome looks and oodles of money. But I’ll tell you, by far the biggest turn-off for women is a bitch attitude.

I think it was Charles Bukowski who said, “if a woman smells weakness, she’ll kill you.”

Something like that.

A bit harsh, but a hell of a lot closer to truth than you’d like to imagine.

A woman is not going to feel sorry for you because you feel sorry for yourself. More likely she’ll be disgusted.

Self-pity is not a turn-on for a woman.

It will make her as dry as that big desert in Lawrence of Arabia.

Lawrence of Arabia (1962).

If, on the other hand, you develop a bit of charisma and a different attitude, you’ll improve your chances by 1000%.

Seriously…

It’s not impossible. It can be done.

Try to have a fun, non-desperate conversation with a woman and see if that doesn’t work a bit better than desperate anger.

Anyway… that stupid rant got on my nerves.

Way too often, when I see the ridiculous garbage posted by “Right-wingers” online, I shake my head and think to myself:

“Thank the gods those people don’t have any power. They’re fucking nuts.”

But then I remind myself… It’s just an illusion.

This is only the Metaverse. It’s not real. It’s Nationalist Narnia.

The weirdos are loud online, because normal people have better things to do.

When you meet people in reality, it’s completely different. Night and day.

That’s why I have made social gatherings a priority. They give you a reality check. A far more optimistic… and realistic… idea of humanity.

(The online Eeyores don’t have enough agency to make it to those events.)

The online world completely distorts your perception. Things look worse than they are.

That’s why too much “screen time” will make you depressed. (It’s one of the reasons, at least.)

Conferences, on the other hand, give you a chance to hang out with some of the most inspiring people you’ll ever meet.

You’ll walk away with hope, because things aren’t nearly as bad as they seem online.

But don’t take my word for it.

If you want to see for yourself, you can still sign up for the Spring Conference.

It’s a palate cleanser.

Just follow the link, read the instructions, and send an email.

End of rant.